tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post3879055092321047876..comments2023-09-07T04:46:27.378-07:00Comments on Life According to Mel Heth: When One Moment Passes, There's Another Right Behind ItMelissa Marishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15216312159880277204noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-32664757579002769672011-06-28T09:28:00.792-07:002011-06-28T09:28:00.792-07:00WowTWA - I'll try to freaking enjoy living in ...WowTWA - I'll try to freaking enjoy living in the moment. But it's haaaaard!<br /><br />HHP - When's the registration cutoff?<br /><br />HunnerWoof - I don't know when you went to guru school, but I'm guessing you were valedictorian. I've done gratitude journals in the past and may start one up again to help me focus on the positives of the present moment, rather than my crow's feet and lacking sense of purpose in life.<br /><br />Janice - I feel like you're DOING what the "now what" is. You have every right to just hang out out there - you're writing your own life's story.<br /><br />Nilsa - I broached this with Mr. W last night and (like I knew he would) he said, "I can't turn it off! I could never commit to not thinking about it!" So I guess we need to be able to think about the future but still just try really hard to be present most of the time too.<br /><br />Geekhiker - I DO do what I love for a living. I just want to do it in a different part of the state in a few years. :) And Europe? Tried that for 6 weeks - I'd never last living over there. Vacation is a totally different experience than trying to actually exist in foreign society.Melissa Marishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15216312159880277204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-22928963001161290142011-06-27T12:20:32.354-07:002011-06-27T12:20:32.354-07:00I guess that's why people always say that you ...I guess that's why people always say that you should do what you love for a living. But, let's face it, the reality of life is that the vast majority of us won't be able to do that, because the world just wouldn't work if everyone who wanted to write or act or travel did that. I'm sure the guys who pick up your garbage every week wish they were doing something else, too.<br /><br />Maybe you should move to Europe, where companies more routinely sanction extended sabbaticals with a guarantee of employment on one's return...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-42363616246493988342011-06-27T08:43:50.466-07:002011-06-27T08:43:50.466-07:00So, I agree with you, but sort of don't. I tot...So, I agree with you, but sort of don't. I totally agree that we tend to really soak in everything when we're on vacation or at a special restaurant, etc. But, I don't think we need to or even should expect to live our regular day to day lives with that exact same vigor. If we did, then nothing would stand out and everything would feel monotonous and the same. Instead, I think it's OK to enjoy each day, appreciate what you have, etc., but do so on a smaller scale, so the big trips, concerts and life events still stand out.Nilsa @ SoMi Speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08474642034399063234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-26652437021267264832011-06-27T06:09:34.858-07:002011-06-27T06:09:34.858-07:00I hear you, sister. My days in Paris have become v...I hear you, sister. My days in Paris have become vast expanses of "Now what do I want to do" and much of that time is NOT writing or painting (what I want to do) but is frittered away surfing blogs and facebook. And I'm in frickin' Paris for gosh sakes.Janice MacLeodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01735829220462813302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-90322012453569353062011-06-24T16:55:08.649-07:002011-06-24T16:55:08.649-07:00I found that practicing daily gratitude helps a lo...I found that practicing daily gratitude helps a lot in learning to live in the moment and enjoy even the most routine or mundane experiences. Set aside some time each day...as little as 2 minutes. And for that entire time, run through things for which you're grateful. It can be people, feelings, experiences, memories, smells, foods...really anything. Make it a habit of varying things a little bit, even though I find my "I'm grateful fors" generally start with the same two or three things (hey, they're THAT important). Do it every day. After a while you'll find yourself relishing even the simplest and morst everyday of moments because you'll mentally be adding them to your grateful list. I usually do it at the beginning of my day because it sets the tone.<br /><br />Good luck!HunnerWoofhttp://www.hunnerwoof.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-2203539413454168492011-06-24T13:46:02.543-07:002011-06-24T13:46:02.543-07:00Tinker Bell Half Marathon 1/29/12
DO IT!Tinker Bell Half Marathon 1/29/12<br />DO IT!HHPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285845626556907488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-50385102439630215002011-06-24T13:45:43.131-07:002011-06-24T13:45:43.131-07:00Make some easy goals to achieve on the way to the ...Make some easy goals to achieve on the way to the bigger harder ones. And freaking enjoy living in the moment, Mel!Brettheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09962592571393908971noreply@blogger.com