tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post6171223399835719923..comments2023-09-07T04:46:27.378-07:00Comments on Life According to Mel Heth: BlogSecret: Love SquaredMelissa Marishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15216312159880277204noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-85791532812024120322008-11-22T15:49:00.000-08:002008-11-22T15:49:00.000-08:00No one teaches you (when you're young) that it's e...No one teaches you (when you're young) that it's even possible to fall in love with anyone other than "the one." Who knew that there could be more than one?! Glad you figured it out.Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-13856228936294205782008-11-19T07:07:00.000-08:002008-11-19T07:07:00.000-08:00love is love. I hate it that we have to deny love...love is love. I hate it that we have to deny love or feelings of love because we are in a relationship. Why is "I Love you" such a hard thing to share? <BR/>love is not sex. lust is not love. <BR/>Love is love and yes I think you have every right to love more than one person, but be honest enough with yourself that it is just simply love- not the sex or the lust or the complicated stuff that has you in such turmoil.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-81791439189334134462008-11-18T22:13:00.000-08:002008-11-18T22:13:00.000-08:00Reminds me of the last episode in every season of ...Reminds me of the last episode in every season of the Bachelor...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-55477396448708828442008-11-18T19:47:00.000-08:002008-11-18T19:47:00.000-08:00This is so hard, because it doesn't come from a ma...This is so hard, because it doesn't come from a malicious place at all, yet you feel like you are still hurting people. I hope the last sentence is about you, too.Princess Pointfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10911296163218358167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-72935946727921813132008-11-18T19:21:00.000-08:002008-11-18T19:21:00.000-08:00Philosophy time. I can barely get one girl intere...Philosophy time. I can barely get one girl interested in me, let alone two. I guess it's a good thing I've never been anybody's "one". I'm sure it would be tough to be in that position.<BR/><BR/>Or maybe I was, and they simply made their choice...<BR/><BR/>I guess one never knows for sure...<BR/><BR/>End philosophy ramble.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-54433109869683487492008-11-18T18:30:00.000-08:002008-11-18T18:30:00.000-08:00I'm glad it worked well at the end. Being happy wi...I'm glad it worked well at the end. Being happy with your decision is the best decision in the end.TChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02487739742081226423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-361853749591883572008-11-18T16:57:00.000-08:002008-11-18T16:57:00.000-08:00i really enjoyed this post.it must be bittersweet,...i really enjoyed this post.<BR/><BR/>it must be bittersweet, i would think, to be in the position you're in. hope you find happiness no mater what.megabrookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07116377733819568110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-84811541404403309032008-11-18T16:30:00.000-08:002008-11-18T16:30:00.000-08:00I'm so glad that you've found peace with your deci...I'm so glad that you've found peace with your decision. And that grapefruit sized pit in your stomach ? Is possibly one of the worst feelings in the world.Lacey Beanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12295262934122471371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-52182300134933348192008-11-18T16:17:00.000-08:002008-11-18T16:17:00.000-08:00Hey Mel, thanks for checking out my blog and addin...Hey Mel, thanks for checking out my blog and adding me to your blogroll. I'm about to check out your blog now!<BR/><BR/>As for this blogsecret, sounds truly agonizing. :(Mermandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14752729189708919104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-9147118091651454292008-11-18T13:15:00.000-08:002008-11-18T13:15:00.000-08:00Oooh anonymous, I want to hear your story now too!...Oooh anonymous, I want to hear your story now too!Melissa Marishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15216312159880277204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-91214041487294562542008-11-18T12:54:00.000-08:002008-11-18T12:54:00.000-08:00i'm going to be anonymous for this comment but i c...i'm going to be anonymous for this comment but i could have wrote this myself. so fellow blogger who shares my biggest secret i understand EXACTLY how you feel. wow i wish i could tell you my story too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-77319846401581144172008-11-18T12:07:00.000-08:002008-11-18T12:07:00.000-08:00It's a tough choice, but I'm hoping you're happy w...It's a tough choice, but I'm hoping you're happy with the choice you made. Thanks for sharing.Belle Ecrivainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17110003449155096956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-87702516659130491262008-11-18T11:53:00.000-08:002008-11-18T11:53:00.000-08:00Being in love with two people, I'm actually not su...Being in love with two people, I'm actually not sure that's happened to me. I do think guys are capable of this though. We're not all that different than woman, we just express ourselves differently.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-71470232697498651892008-11-18T11:45:00.000-08:002008-11-18T11:45:00.000-08:00Egan - my secret is far juicier than this. Haven't...Egan - my secret is far juicier than this. Haven't you ever been in love with two people at once? Maybe it's a girl thing. <BR/><BR/>But as my Secretblogger explains, it really sucks. I can't imagine being in that situation now. I feel her pain and hope she can find some clarity on the situation.Melissa Marishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15216312159880277204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-82904597801638390502008-11-18T11:37:00.000-08:002008-11-18T11:37:00.000-08:00This isn't anonymous is it? I'm kidding. I just ...This isn't anonymous is it? I'm kidding. I just read your comment on Brandy's BlogSecret post and it sounds like you can personally relate a bit to this story.<BR/><BR/>Love is a tricky emotion, that's for damn sure. Just be honest with your self about expectations.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-32099313792558663512008-11-18T10:58:00.000-08:002008-11-18T10:58:00.000-08:00Finding peace in all our lives is so very hard to ...Finding peace in all our lives is so very hard to do ... hope you get there and stay there!Nilsa @ SoMi Speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08474642034399063234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-5851885469381291212008-11-18T10:02:00.000-08:002008-11-18T10:02:00.000-08:00forever I told myself you can only love 1 person a...forever I told myself you can only love 1 person at a time. The I fell in love with someone else. I denied it for months. But it was true. I loved her.<BR/><BR/>I'm truly of the opinion you don't pick who you love... love picks you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-14298204943479914282008-11-18T07:30:00.000-08:002008-11-18T07:30:00.000-08:00'endless nights spent shaking and sobbing over the...'endless nights spent shaking and sobbing over the thought of choosing the wrong one... or waiting too long to choose and ending up alone'<BR/><BR/>Man, I'm feeling that grapefruit, too.saratogajeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14402142186036541065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-43057504479974942172008-11-18T04:52:00.000-08:002008-11-18T04:52:00.000-08:00I think love has to become a choice for it to work...I think love has to become a choice for it to work. You fall, it's great, and then it gets to the hard stuff. Making it last and making it work. That you've fallen in love with two people makes it all so much worse.Michelle Fluttering Butterflieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08793681725475475156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-90813014042495432652008-11-18T04:18:00.000-08:002008-11-18T04:18:00.000-08:00wow. that completely blew me away. i'm glad you're...wow. that completely blew me away. i'm glad you're happy with your decision and that you shared this secret....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3087093335837785770.post-83656782776546290882008-11-18T00:57:00.000-08:002008-11-18T00:57:00.000-08:00I hope you're the last one. :)I hope you're the last one. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com